4 Ways to Stay Motivated When You've a Long Way to Go

Serial dieters will know that the first week, or even month, of a new diet or exercise regimen is often a time of super-high willpower, intense focus, and a sense of deep determination.
That initial enthusiasm doesn't last long though, and many people give up in despair at the thought of the months ahead - often regaining the weight they've managed to lose (and then some).
So, how can you keep up your motivation when you know you've got a long way to go before you reach your goal?
1. Accept That it Takes Time
Often, the most important step is simply to accept that it will take time to lose weight, or to reach a high level of fitness. In a world of quick-fixes and diet pills offering dubious promises, we need to remember that health is life-long.
2. Read Success Stories
When you have a big goal in any area of your life, seeing others' success can help to convince you that it is possible. Magazines, blogs and forums often chart individuals' weight-loss, or fitness success stories. Use these for inspiration when your will-power is low.
3. Set Mini-Milestones
Don't just focus on your perfect goal weight, or on being able to run a marathon - set small milestones along the way to give you targets every few weeks, and mark your achievement dates on your calendar. This lets you recognise and celebrate what you're already achieving. Mini-milestones could be:
- Losing another 7lbs
- Taking your workout routine up a level
- Filling in your food diary consistently for a month
- Getting five portions of fruit and veg every day for a month
4. Visualise Yourself At Your Goal
If you've been overweight and unfit most of your life, it can be very hard to change that mental image of yourself - which can leave you feeling unconvinced that you'll ever reach your goal.
Take a few minutes each day to imagine how you'll look and feel when you do reach your goal: full of energy, able to buy clothes which you love, and able to run around with your kids. It might sound a bit hooky, but top athletes use visualisation to spur them on towards success, and it can work for you too.
Have you still got a long way to go before you reach your goal?
Why not share your story and progress so far in Diet Blog Share? It's a great place to get advice and support from others.
Great post. I read recently that willpower is like a muscle -- the more you stretch it, the weaker it gets. That's why starvation diets don't work, but a good, balanced, long-term plan will.
ReplyAll are good points above. We all have to find our way & what works for us. Using the Be SMART about your goal setting is a good one. This means making your goals Specific, Measurable, Attainable, Realistic and Timely.
For me, consistency, planning & weight training did it for ALONG with eating right. Food is at least 665-80% of this whole thing so you definitely have to get the mind into it.
ReplySorry for the typos...meant 65-80%
ReplyGreat post. I'm going to print it out and hang in on my door. To remind me every day.
ReplyThanks.
Very good points! Another one I use is to drink a lot of water, especially between meals. It staves off hunger and gives you energy for your workouts.
To Your Health!
ReplyGreat message, Ali! So important.
ReplyNumber 3 Mini Milestones is a great tip. Aim for those smaller steps and be proud when you get there.
ReplyGreat article! Mini Milestones are a wonderful idea. We all get discouraged when we don't see things happening as fast as we expected. Sometimes it means focusing on those baby steps. Thanks for the post!
ReplyWhen I was losing my 90 lbs, I took it in 10 lb increments. It definitely made it feel more do-able. Whenever I went down a size, I would go to Younker's and try on all the designer jeans to see what size I fit into. It was great motivation...I kept thinking of all the great clothes I would be able to wear once I got to my goal weight. Every time I lost 10 lbs, I allowed myself one item of clothing (I couldn't afford to replace my wardrobe every time I changed sizes!). Slow and steady wins the race, that's for sure.
ReplyHey Spectra, I just wanted to thank you for this comment! I have about 80 lbs to lose, and it helps to hear what those who've been down in the trenches (so to speak) have done to accomplish their goals.
ReplyGreat post!
I think this kind of advice is priceless, specially the first. When you have plenty of weight to lose you have to think it will take some time. You can't expect to lose all in a row. Take time, enjoy life, while becoming thinner and healthier.
ReplyMini-goals have been CRUCIAL for my success. New article of clothing, pedicure, massages, whatever...all super helpful for keeping me motivated!
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