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• FitJerk - Flawless Fitness Blog commented on Why do Skinny People hate Fat People?
  Exactly. I've delt with people for YEARS and therefore can read subtle messages with EASE. This post is an attempt to gain attention and sympathy. There, I said it. But while I'm in your face, maybe I can help you get past this because it also seems you are truly in need for a solution. 1. STOP PLAYING THE VICTIM. You say: "I don't choose to be fat..." Uhm... YES YOU DO. In an earlier post I saw someone who wrote about how she stopped playing the victim and lost 90lbs. You have a choice, you can either be the...
• Fitness Mania commented on Why do Skinny People hate Fat People?
  Wow! Harsh... but you speak the truth. A lot of people could benefit from this....
• alex commented on Why do Skinny People hate Fat People?
  I think that everything comes with a choice. You chose to be fat. People don't force you to eat....
• ZippyTheWerewolf commented on Why do Skinny People hate Fat People?
  I tend to agree with Lemontree. People do in fact judge you based on weight. When I quit smoking, I put on a large amount of weight. People loved telling me how fat I got..As if I didn't already know! There definitely are people who won't talk to someone because of how they look, and those are people you don't want in your circle anyway. As for the tough love. I agree with it to SOME degree. But obesity needs to be treated with the same respect and treatment that other eating disorders are. It's a learned behavior stemming from...
• Marie commented on Why do Skinny People hate Fat People?
  Everyone needs moral support, positivity helps in a big way, start from there... everything in life takes time, small changes sometimes slower but it happens (cutting down food intake, walking etc.) Give yourself a goal: a period of time, resist some things and gain more power when you take control and think positive. Sometimes it's not the number on your scale, but what the mirror says....