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Food, Poverty and Guilt: Where Do You Sit?

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Communal Kitchen.

We're at a strange juncture right now. First we were hit by rising food and oil prices -- and then the whole financial system appears to be crumbling before our eyes. No one seems to know what will happen next - with commentators vacillating between fear and hope.

How long will these times of trouble last? How far will our standard of living drop? As I contemplate these things I realize that for a good portion of the world - the standard of living never rose in the first place, and "times of trouble" is a permanent aspect of daily life.

I'm talking about those gripped by poverty.

As a child I remember the images on TV - the fly-blown emaciated African kids - with the distended bellies. It was the time of the Ethiopian famines.

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These ladies received a loan as a group.
The head sticking out at the back is yours truly.

I remember eating my dinner - feeling a little bit of guilt as I swallowed each mouthful. Was it right for me to be stuffing my face while others starved to death? Maybe if I ate less - then others could eat more.

I've grown older now - and perhaps less manipulated by guilt and more motivated to find pragmatic solutions. These days I enjoy my food with an attitude of gratitude. Guilt is a useless emotion really. Sorrow that inspires me to action is far more useful.

In reality the world is a complex tangle of NGO's, trade tarriffs, sanctions, supply-and-demand market forces, greed, war, and corruption. It would be easy for me to opt out all together.

But I can't.

The families in poverty are no different to my family. Parents love their kids no less than I love mine. They feel the same emotions as me. They want the best for their family.

I could opt out by getting caught up in endless arguments over the semantics of that word: Poverty. My own take on it is that it's all about a lack of choice - but that discussion is for another time.

First-hand
I am a fan of micro-enterprise development - a form of poverty alleviation where communities and individuals are encouraged to build their own businesses. They are provided small loans and then given the support needed to create their own business and possibly even employ others.

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This woman used her loan to get this sewing machine.
She makes the most incredible fabrics and clothing.

A portion of Diet Blog profits (from the ads) go to creating small community based banks in Indonesia and the Philippines.

Earlier this year I visited Indonesia. It was a privilege for me to see first-hand how these projects are empowering people and giving them back their dignity. I was also humbled by the passion, skill, and dedication of the indigenous agencies that carried out this work.

If you are interested in these organizations - see Dinari - I can personally vouch for them. You can even loan money yourself through KIVA.

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12 Comments

John Sifferman - Burn The Fat

"These days I enjoy my food with an attitude of gratitude."

I think this is a wise choice. One of my teachers said that all healing must start with gratitude, and I agree with that. I think that we who are more privileged than others have a responsibility to be grateful for our abundance, and help others in any way you can. If we can help, we must.

Sincerely,

John Sifferman NSCA-CPT

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Never teh Bride

I'm glad to know that by clicking through the site, I'm helping to supporting enterprise in other countries. Kudos to you guys!

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cereal

I know you have good intentions, but don't forget that poverty happens here in the U.S. as well. I get a little tired of people patting themselves on the back about how they help the poor and disenfranchised, but they turn a blind eye too what occurs in there own country, and instead participate in the far trendier help the poor foreign country self aggrandizement.

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Jim

I hear you and agree that there is no reason to turn a blind eye to what is happening locally. This post was something for Blog Action Day. I would encourage you - if you feel passionate about helping those less-fortunate - then find an area where you can help best - whether down your street - or on the other side of the world.

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cereal

Yes Jim,I'm quite aware of the fact that I can help people down my street as you put it. What did you think my post was about?

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anya

Absolutely true that poverty exists in first world countries, though that is no excuse to sledge those who want to help the extreme poverty of the third world.

As for the microeconomic projects mentioned here, I think they are brilliant. They give people a start, and a means to not only survival but self-determination.

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cereal

I sledged him? I have no problem with those who truly care, but there are too many that think because this is America that poverty doesn't exist here.

There are too many naive people who believe that you can solve another countries problems by simply giving them objects; be it money,food, or health supplies totally ignoring what that country or regions true problems are.

I've simply grown tired of seeing people in the U.S. ignored by there own. Those who have gotten rich in this country who believe it's cool or hip to be seen giving there time or wealth to foreign countries.

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Jim

Wise words. Any constructive ideas/suggestions what we can do to help the poor in America?

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Dr. J

We are fighting a losing battle, yet fighting the good fight is it's own reward!

Very nice message, Jim!

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Spectra

As food prices go up, I find myself being more and more thankful that I can afford to eat decent food and that we've been able to maintain our standard of living without very many sacrifices. I think a big part of the problem is that SO MANY Americans enjoy a standard of living that they truly cannot afford because they pay for all their stuff on credit, have more than one mortgage on their house, drive brand new cars all the time, etc. Maybe it's GOOD that we as a society are finally being forced to downsize a bit...it'll make us appreciate the simpler things in life a lot more.

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Supplements

With the rising cost of food it is getting scarier and scarier for these third world nations. I hope going forward more leading nations step up to help.

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Jordan

While there is poverty in America, there remain, places in the world far more hard pressed for the very basics of survival in the face of drought, famine and disease. It is ridiculously cheap to save human lives. It seems to me that we should be humans first and foremost by having abundant generousity for our human brothers and sisters in desperate need around the world, and abandon all forms of nationalism and nepotism that come in conflict with our first aligiance, the community (common unity) of humanity. But what can I really say? I'm a gluton (figuratively) who gives only occasionally, still struggling to combat my own western appetites that rob my efficacy. Cheeseburger and a Coke please, I'll help them another day.

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