Emotional Eating Course: Free Trial
Dr Roger Gould's Mastering Food program has a free trial session. The 12 week course is aimed at exploring (and resolving) issues of emotional eating. I had a look to see what it was all about.
The site asks a number of empowering questions - questions designed to make you really think. What really drives me to do the things I do?
After entering some information about my reasons for eating, Mastering Food highlighted the conflict that exists.
I want to lose weight in order to:
| I want to keep eating like I do because:
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The program then explores relationships by asking a series of small questions. The following (rather lucid) statement was then created for me:
When [name withheld] doesn't respect me, it hurts because I feel weak. When I feel this way I tend to respond by eating something I know I shouldn't. However after the temporary relief I get from this fades, I feel like I'm sabotaging myself.I guess we all have issues...
The entire course (all on-line) runs over 12 weeks and includes weekly workbooks and guided sessions. Costs are $40 per month (full course $120). I looked at the entire program. A new session is unlocked after you complete a session. There is no nutritional advice - that is not the emphasis.
We live in a world where we will always be surrounded by food and you can't go cold turkey. Willpower is NOT enough. In order to truly eliminate emotional eating you have to unlearn the pattern and end the conflict. You have to break the connection between food and comfort.
- from Mastering Food.
This course actually sounds interesting and might be something good from my visitors to my website to here about. Thank you
ReplyWe all start diets for our own individual reasons - I'm glad to see a diet program that examines and attempts to explore these reasons. That should lead to a higher success rate, the problem with most diets these days are that they are too generic so this makes a nice change!
ReplyI like this!
ReplyI for most of us who struggle with weight issues, also struggle with emotional issues that trigger bad eating choices. I'm exploring what this means for me. Not just chosing foods that won't help me, but why exercising is such a chore. I know full well that I feel better when I'm more active. It's a vicious circle some days. Best thing is to be aware of it and keep plugging along.
For me getting a diet partner has been the best thing -- and we do it virtually. An old college pal and myself are working on making healthy choices -- whether its food, activity or otherwise.
Two weeks into it and we're still going strong. You can check out our progress at:
http://efat-blog.blogspot.com/
Good luck in your healthy lifestyle endeavors.
ReplyPeople eat junk food nowadays, because they are stressed out at work.
Even if the person's eating healthy, being depressed can still lead to bad health.
ReplyPeople don't just eat because of stress...there are other emotions that cause overeating/emotional eating. My mother's entire family has weight issues stemming from emotional eating. She eats to get away from people, to distance herself, to avoid contact with people. She's afraid of being herself to people because she's afraid they will criticize her much as her mother always did. Food doesn't criticize her at all, so she likes to eat. This book sounds interesting because most diets ignore the emotional aspect of eating...they just say "Hey, change what you eat" instead of "Change WHY you eat", which is really what you need to change. I used to be a "boredom" eater and I'd eat whenever I was bored and even felt slightly hungry. Now, when I'm bored I find other things to do to keep me busy instead of eating.
ReplyThis may help some of my blog visitors! Thanks for sharing...
Adam
ReplyI agree with Dr Gould that will power is not enough but disagree that one must break the connection between food and comfort. Emotional eating is as much a matter of habit as non-emotional eating.
Spectra, I think that why you eat isn't as important as how often and how much. But keeping busy between meals and snacks is a great help while one is learning when and how much to eat.
ReplyCoach, I agree that you do have to change what you eat, but a lot of diet books just give you the new food plan and don't offer the emotional aspect. It's pretty easy to just follow a plan for a month and lose weight, but incorporating healthy eating into a lifestyle is a lot harder, especially for people who do eat based on emotions and feelings.
ReplySpectra, when it comes to permanent weight loss, one does not have to change what one eats, only how often and how much. I truly want to help people realize this. If you program yourself when to be hungry and how much you eat, you will have changed your 'lifestyle'. Your emotions will no longer have power over what you weigh. If you will follow the link to my site, you will see what I mean.
A marketing expert once told me, "The biggest problem you will have with this system is that it's simple. People think it can't work because it's too simple." He's right. One does not have to climb K2 or swim the Pacific at its widest point or re-dig the Grand Canyon with a coffee spoon. It's just one foot in front of the other for 21 days.
What you eat is up to you. I don't tell people what to eat; they teach themselves how to eat in 21 days.
ReplyI don't understand why I allow myself to continue to gain weight. I've gone from a youthful good looking, sexy woman to being 50 lbs over weight. I see the disappointment in my family and friends, they look away when they see what I've done to myself. Every other aspect of my life is good -- its just when it comes to ME I stop trying, I feel tired, uninspired and almost afraid to change. Why would I do this to myself, do others feel the same way?
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