self-esteem

We also LOVE to eat! And now new research claims watching all this death and destruction may actually cause us to consume MORE than we already do.

I was saddened to read how girls as young as five start thinking of fat as undesirable and skinny as good (in the Times newspaper as part of response to a question sent in by a mother who was anxious that her three year old was developing a poor body image.)

With an exhausted sigh she dissolved into tears - not the normal response after coming home from the gym. It was yet another comment from yet another guy.

It seems that women doing weights with a smile on their face is a sexual come-on to some guys: "A good-looking woman doing weights: She must want me" they think.

Objectification: one person treats another person as an object and not as a fellow human being with feelings and consciousness of his or her own.

A long time ago, there was a young girl with a gap between her front teeth. This girl absolutely, positively, did not like this gap. Because she did not like the gap between her teeth, she decided to try not to smile. This attempt ended almost immediately, because she was a fairly happy girl. The notion, though, never left her mind.

For most people, getting ready in the morning is done in a hurry-scurry manner.

If you’re anything like me, and mornings aren't your strongest suite, it’s hard to be enthusiastic about your appearance when you’d much rather be back in bed.

There are times in all of our lives, when we’ve had enough with our situation, our day, or our life. Our mind seems to fill with negative thoughts.

The same is true about our bodies. There are days when nothing positive comes to mind (Maybe it all starts with tight jeans. I hate it when my jeans feel tight. It makes me want to rip them off and put on a pair of sweat-pants for the day.).

During my first year teaching preschool, I was asked by one of my students:

“Miss Sylvia, do you think these shoes make my butt look big?”

Confidence is the best way to shine from within. And it's all about a positive mind-set. Use these tips to bring out your most confident self. It's all about realizing how great you can be!

Fat Talk: "The pressure for women to say negative things about their own body."

Some intriguing research shows that college students - males and females - know that when women are in a group of other women who are fat talking, that they are supposed to join in to say negative things about their bodies. And, there is pressure to do so.

In other words - if someone starts complaining about how fat they are - there is an unwritten rule that you must also join in with the self-degradation.

New research shows that fashion models have a lower self-esteem and feel less-fulfilled than people in other careers.

Toronto Public Health is running an ad campaign called "Your Kids Are Listening". What are they listening to? Their parents going on about fat and weight problems: What you say and do in front of your children can affect their self-esteem. Set a healthy example when your children are young.