What Program Did Rob Use to Lose 100 Pounds?
Near the end of 2003, Rob experienced a "random act of violence" - he was held at gunpoint during a home robbery. The traumatizing incident led to a serious bout of depression. Rob felt like he had lost control of his life. His comforts became TV and a big box of Cheez-Its.
Rob admits he has been fat his entire life.
"Long ago, I accepted the fact that I would always be fat." he writes.
Over a year later Rob decided it was time to regain control of his life. He changed his living circumstances and decided to embark on a diet. He tried Atkins -- but hated it. Feeling frustrated, he turned to the South Beach Diet.
"I was hungry the entire time and this only lasted a few weeks" he admits.
BFFM
Finally, Rob discovered Tom Venuto's Burn the Fat Feed the Muscle program -- and the transformation began. BFFM is a popular program that deals with all aspects of change: nutrition, cardio and strength training, and also goal-setting and visualization. Over the years I have noticed that the program resonates strongly with men (read my own personal review here - note that like every program it will suit some, but not others).
Motivation
In Rob's case - he believes that 90% of his struggle is mental and emotional. Being a visual person Rob got down to the business of motivation.
I made six-foot tall goal posters. I made a cube out of cardboard the size of one pound of fat and placed it on top of the refrigerator to remind me to get healthy snacks. I made custom wallpapers and screensavers so my computer at work and even my cell phone would remind me of my goals. Most importantly, I enlisted a few friends to randomly call me once a week to encourage me.
Cardio
"I hate cardio" writes Rob, "it is boring to me because my mind is not engaged." To remedy this, Rob used the services of Cardio Coach - a system of MP3 audio workouts that guide the user through various training routines. "There are times when it's just the coach and me and I'm in a zone and loving the endorphins".

Superman!
The Plateau
Rob used a home-made spreadsheet to track his goals, but after a few months - he hit a plateau - and like most people he found he had to continually re-focus his efforts to get past the plateau.Results
In the fifteen months from when he began, Rob (6 foot 6) has gone from 312 pounds to under 220 pounds. His waistline has plummeted from 50 inches to 36. According to his measurements he has gained 10 pounds of muscle, and burned 100 pounds of fat.Numbers are numbers; the real achievement is the inward and outward transformation.
People who haven't seen me in a while don't recognize me. Sometimes I don't even recognize me. That is not entirely true - I recognize the person who had been hidden under all that fat: physically, emotionally and spiritually. That is the true Rob. I see old pictures of myself and wonder who that person is.
What an incredible achievement. Congratulations Rob.
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Created / Updated: January 8, 2012
I find it a bit odd that Rob was always hungry on the South Beach Diet because one of the principles of that diet is to "eat until you're satisfied." I certainly don't believe that one diet fits everyone and I'm glad Rob found something that suited him. But I also wonder if he was doing South Beach correctly if he was hungry all the time. I'm obviously biased since I've lost 160 pounds on SB, but usually if someone doesn't like it it's because of the food selections or cost of food, not because of hunger.
ReplyThat's the power of Burn the Fat, Feed the Muscle. He came out with more muscle, and therefore a higher metabolism, than when he went in. I'm interested as to why women don't like it as much. Is it the weight training? Eating a lean protein every 3 hours? The exclusion of sweets?
ReplyCongratulations to Rob! It is incredible the kind of transformation a human body is capable of achieving.
ReplyCongratulations to rob so much on his weight loss.
ReplyWay to go. I have heard recently that losing weight is 99% mental, 1% math. I believe it, as that is where the motivation comes from. If you can sustain the motivation, "bottle it", so to speak, and break open the bottles when you need it, you are doin' great!
ReplyRyan - I personally got a lot out of BFFM, dropping from around 20% bodyfat to 16.7%. (I've since gotten down to 14.4% BF through Lyle McDonald's Ultimate Diet 2, but that's another story.)
As for why women don't seem to like BFFM, I've noticed the same thing. I journalled my BFFM experiences on a weight loss support board, with a predominantly female memberhip. A group of women were intrigued enough to buy the e-book and start BFFM themselves, but they didn't last a week. The reasons seemed to be that they lacked the discipline to count every calorie and gram of protein, carbohydrate and fat; they were reluctant to give up sweets/alcohol/processed food; they weren't organised enough to plan and prepare their food in advance; and they "didn't have the time" to read the book. None of them have lost weight since.
BFFM is a great program, but it does require discipline.
ReplyI'm so sorry to hear of Rob's traumatic event. Nobody should have to endure something like that. However, a sincere congratulations is in order because that is a phenomenal transformation. It is truly admirable to see someone take such a negative experience and turn it into a positive. Congratulations, Rob!
ReplyWow!
ReplyI am a woman on BFFM (for 2.5 months) and I really like the program and the results I've gotten.
That said, I do think it would be easier to use if I were a guy. This is for two reasons. First of all, the program focuses on building muscle and reducing body fat percentage. Now, you can do this as a woman, but it easier to do physiologically as a guy.
Secondly, because of the lower lbm, women have to reduce calories a lot further than the guys, making the 5 meals a day smaller. 300 vs 400
calories makes a big difference. Also, I think women who have watched their weight have been trained to think of skipping meals as a good thing, much more so than guys have. So changing this mentality is more difficult too.
I still think it's the best program around, but, the reasons it may be easier for guys are not just because women are less dedicated or like sweets too much.
ReplyI forgot to add I am also sorry for rob's traumatic event.
ReplyTraumatic events can couse overeating in people.
I'm a woman who is following a program very similar to BFFM and I love it. It takes a lot of discipline and the meals you eat are more "scientific" than they are pleasing or comforting. Maybe that's one reason it appeals more to men than women? I also agree with Rachel - it focuses on building muscle which is easier for men to do than women. Men who start the program probably see more dramatic results than women, who may need to work harder to maintain muscle while losing fat.
I agree that it is the best type of program for losing fat and keeping muscle.
ReplyYoga is a good place to start getting active, but I don't think it can match a combination of cardio and weight training. Particularly, I disagree with Yoga's approach to flexibility. All you're doing is waiting for your body's stretch reflex to wear off. Instead, why not coax it out and work with it, as is done with PNF stretching. PNF stretching will increase flexibility up to 3 times faster than yoga. Smart weight training will also give you great flexibility, contrary to popular belief. Both PNF or weight training will teach your muscles to be strong in their stretched positions, rather than just having loose muscle.
ReplyRe the comments about BFFM being harder for women - I'm a woman (not sure if this was clear from my earlier post?). Sure, it takes longer for us to gain muscle, but the benefits are the same. More muscle = a faster metabolism and a leaner body. Plus, it feels good to be strong!
ReplyI agree, RedPanda. I LOVE lifting heavy weights and being strong. Most women probably don't feel that way, but I think that is beginning to change ...
ReplyCongratulations to Rob, looking good. Sorry about his trama, that always has an affect on people in some form. I get scared everytime I see those gross pictures of peoples' lost weight that ends up with extra skin that is in the way. One lady had 87 operations so far to eradicate the problem. Why solve one problem (obesity) to end up with 87 additional problems? And who could afford or want to go through so much more adversity? Ahh yes, the pros and cons of life.
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